Japanese Table‑Tennis Star Harimoto's Handshake Sparks Heated Debate on Respect and National Pride in China‑Japan Rivalry
Tomokazu Harimoto, the Japanese table‑tennis prodigy of Chinese descent, found himself at the centre of a heated debate this month after a post‑match handshake in Yokohama sparked accusations of disrespect and a flood of commentary on Chinese social media.

10 August 2025
The episode began during the WTT Yokohama Champions tournament when Harimoto faced China’s Xiang Peng in the men’s singles quarter‑finals. Harimoto won the match, and, as is customary in the sport, the coaches of the two players met at the edge of the table to exchange a handshake. Harimoto says he observed Chinese coach Wang Hao extend a hand, but that the gesture was fleeting: the coach shook Harimoto’s hand briefly, then turned his attention back to Xiang Peng to discuss the match. For Harimoto, the moment felt “casual” and, in his words, lacking the respect he expected after a hard‑fought victory.
Harimoto’s irritation was not limited to this one encounter. In interviews with Japanese outlet Yahoo Japan he recounted similar experiences after beating rising Chinese star Lin Shidong, noting that the coach on the Chinese side appeared to focus on post‑match analysis almost immediately, leaving little room for a proper handshake. By contrast, Harimoto remembered a more confident handshake from Chinese player Wang Chuqin after Harimoto’s own loss to him. “I hope for a little more respect,” Harimoto told the Japanese press, acknowledging Wang Chuqin’s strength while lamenting the perceived curt treatment from other Chinese coaches.

The brief comment quickly migrated to China’s biggest micro‑blogging platform, Weibo, where it transformed into a series of trending hashtags. Users posted under “Harimoto responds to the complaint” (张本智和回应告状) and “Harimoto hopes for more respect” (张本智和希望获得多一点尊重). A parallel strand of discussion sought to counter Harimoto’s narrative, pointing to video footage captured by TV Tokyo that showed Wang Hao reaching out first and shaking Harimoto’s hand before turning away. Hashtags such as “Live video restores Wang Hao‑Harimoto handshake” (现场视频还原王皓张本智和握手) circulated, suggesting that the Japanese player’s grievance might be an overreaction.
The back‑and‑forth quickly escalated beyond a simple sports‑manship dispute. Some Chinese netizens accused Harimoto of playing a double game: praising Xiang Peng to Chinese journalists while airing his complaints to Japanese media. One comment summed up the sentiment: “He plays it smart facing different people.” Others defended Wang Hao, arguing that a coach’s priority after a match is to debrief his player, and that a brief handshake does not constitute disrespect. Yet another line of commentary held that, regardless of the coach’s duties, a moment of courtesy toward the opponent should not be postponed.
Public sentiment on Weibo leaned heavily toward defending the Chinese side. Many users expressed national pride, questioning why Harimoto – a Japanese citizen despite his Chinese heritage – would be granted such attention. Threads read, “I can’t believe why we give so much attention to this Japanese person,” and “Are you going to believe Wang Hao from the August 1st team, or someone who changed nationality to Japan?” A sizable contingent characterized Harimoto’s complaint as petty or attention‑seeking, with remarks like “Coach Wang Hao is faultless; Harimoto is a bit petty.” A recurring accusation was that Harimoto was “two‑faced,” praising Chinese athletes in one context while condemning Chinese coaches in another.
Nevertheless, a smaller but notable segment of the conversation highlighted the broader principle of sportsmanship. One user wrote, “When an athlete comes in front of you, they should indeed be given enough respect. Reviewing the game is not urgent in that second. The coach’s words and actions also represent the entire team’s etiquette. We still need to pay attention!” These comments underscored an emerging consensus that, while cultural and procedural differences may exist, genuine respect on the table remains a universal expectation.
The episode also revived memories of earlier, less‑publicised interactions between Harimoto and Chinese coaches. Some netizens recalled prior moments when Wang Hao’s handshake with Harimoto felt similarly perfunctory, suggesting a pattern rather than an isolated incident. This historical texture added depth to the debate, prompting observers to ask whether the issue lay in personal chemistry, divergent coaching styles, or deeper cultural nuances in how victory and defeat are publicly acknowledged.
Beyond the immediate personalities, the incident reflects a convergence of several forces that shape modern sport. The rapid amplification of a brief handshake through Weibo demonstrates how social media can magnify micro‑interactions into national dialogues within hours. It also highlights how athletes navigate multiple media ecosystems: Harimoto’s comments to Japanese outlets, his prior praise of Chinese players to Chinese press, and the selective framing of each by national media outlets. The resulting “dual narrative” feeds into perceptions of strategic self‑presentation and, for some, duplicity.
Moreover, the story sits at the intersection of sports diplomacy and cultural exchange. Table tennis has long been a field of fierce rivalry and deep interconnection between China and Japan. Players such as Harimoto, whose family roots trace back to China but who represents Japan, embody the sport’s transnational character. When a handshake—an ostensibly simple gesture—becomes a flashpoint, it implicitly asks both sides to confront how national identity, personal heritage, and professional conduct intertwine on the global stage.
As of now, no further incidents have arisen, and the discussion appears to have settled into a nuanced, if still polarized, appraisal of the handshake episode. For Harimoto, the episode may serve as a reminder that respect—whether offered through a firm grip or a brief nod—remains a fragile commodity in elite competition. For Wang Hao and the Chinese team, the episode reinforces the importance of visibly honoring opponents, especially in a sport where accolades and setbacks are measured in fractions of a second. And for the millions of viewers scrolling through Weibo, the saga offers both a glimpse into the minutiae of table‑tennis etiquette and a broader meditation on how cultural expectations shape our interpretations of sport.
In the end, what began as a fleeting post‑match gesture has unfolded into a layered conversation about respect, media strategy, and national pride—a reminder that in today’s hyper‑connected world, even the smallest actions on the table can ripple far beyond the arena.