My partner and I are arguing about whether we should switch seats on the high-speed train.
In a recent survey, many people have reported incidents where their seatmates on high-speed trains have requested that they swap seats to sit next to their partners. While some have complied with the request, others have refused.

17 June 2023
One passenger recounted an incident where a couple sat in front of him and his female companion and asked if he would switch seats so they could sit together. The passenger was engrossed in his work and did not fully listen to the request. He reluctantly agreed to switch seats, but the woman was still dissatisfied because she wanted to sit by the window, and the man wanted her to sit by him.
Another passenger shared a similar experience where he was asked to swap seats with a couple who wanted to sit together. The man refused, leading to an argument between the couple and the refusal of the passenger.
Some respondents pointed out that they have encountered such situations in their high school days, while others mentioned that it depends on the situation and their mood.
One person suggested using a polite and straightforward approach when making such requests, while another recommended considering the other person's feelings and giving them an appropriate response.
In conclusion, while some passengers may be willing to swap seats for romantic reasons, others may refuse due to personal preferences or other factors. Regardless of the situation, it is important to handle such requests with sensitivity and consideration for both parties involved.
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